Alex Telman, Brisbane Spiritual Healing
Psychic Interference: The Power of Thoughts and Beliefs on Your
Self
An interview with Alex Telman
I came to Alex Telman with a number of thoughts on my mind; specifically, are our lives decided by some supreme force that oversees the fate of our universe, and can we really be the creators of our own experiences?
Can we truly create our existence simply from the thought processes evolving within our own minds?
Everything that occurs around you, to you and for you is a product of your inherent ability to create through the power of the thoughts that develop within your mind. Thought is simply the medium of your creations.
How much of your own experience is really your own?
Everything. What we think, we create! What we think, is!
So where do our thoughts originate from?
Our minds are impacted and bombarded consistently by the thoughts, ideas and experiences of others. We interact with others, talking and exchanging our ideas and experiences. We relate, interrelate and bond with others around us, sharing our experiences to lighten the load and feel less alone.
How many times have you felt like the experience of another has suddenly become your own? People play out their dramas in our lives, making us a part of their experience, expecting support, assistance and guidance. We suddenly feel as though their lives have become ours also and that we are either obligated to or responsible for them. When we feel this way about others and their experiences, we have diverted our own course in life, putting the needs of others before our own and allowing ourselves to be carried along into the flow of another's choices and experiences.
Is there a problem when we decide to take on other’s thoughts?
As a rule, no. As Souls we choose our current human incarnation and we know what is in store for us. We have a Life Plan for our current life that includes learning from other people.
It’s only when we divert from our own Life Plan and become embedded in the experiences of another, that we lose sight of who we are and our personal vision for self. We forget why we are doing what we are doing in support, obligation, responsibility or dependency of another! We just go along with the ride without thinking about what we are really doing or creating. When we feel this way, we are overly impressed with the other person's "stuff" which includes their beliefs, their thinking, their behaviour and their fears!
How many of us have been sold the idea of fear from the beliefs held by another? We listen to the fearful lamentations of our friends, family, associates, colleagues and so on and imagine how it feels to be afraid in their situation, seeing ourselves in their shoes yet in our own lives. As our mind runs wild with these limitless and imagined scenarios, we begin to "take on" and assume their fears synthesizing them as our own. When we are afraid, our survival instincts "kick in". This only serves to heighten our fear, impressing the mind with images that reflect how we feel inside. We hold this image in our minds, making it vivid and real.
The Soul is the initiator of our ethical and moral belief system. The subconscious mind is the keeper of these belief systems. It responds to images, visions and pictures. Words have no meaning. Words can only inspire or conjure thoughts that create clear mental pictures or images. It is through these images that we formulate and revise our beliefs. Our beliefs are the filters placed over our creative consciousness. Our thoughts pass through these filters and create new or repetitive images that reflect the state of our minds and the beliefs we are holding as true. In time, we will become uncertain about whether these beliefs originated within our Soul, or true self, or from the impressions of others. When the filter is unclear or congested, our ability to discern clearly the difference is difficult if not impossible.
What causes us to take on other’s thoughts?
Others cannot impact or impress our minds with their beliefs unless we have a commonality of beliefs or fears. If you do not believe something, you will automatically reject or expel the idea or concept from your mind, dismissing it as meaningless and incomprehensible.
When others intentionally set out to coerce and impress our minds with their beliefs by continuous or relentless haranguing, nagging, suggestion, manipulation or through mental force, they are psychically interfering with the mind of another.
So control and manipulation is a means of infesting another’s way of thinking?
The individual applying psychic interference is covertly seizing the mind of another hoping to mentally break down their will and resolve enough to influence the other into generating outcomes in accordance with their will. If this operation is successful, the submission of one to the other will cause the victim's reality to intertwine into the interferer's, thus ensuring the enslavement of their mind and emotions.
Enslavement of the mind can only occur where a psychic interferer has made real the inherent fears already present within another person's mind. Interference is evident when one identifies and uses another's fear against them, heightening and making them seem more real and pressing. When love is present, fear will be identified, loving awareness will be revealed and the fear will thus be dispersed and healed. Those around us who love unconditionally will seek to reveal the purposeless and limitation of our fears and encourage us towards choices that empower and enrich our experience of life. Those that intentionally set out to intensify and use our fears against us for their own egotistical need and gain are psychically interfering with our will, our minds and our belief systems.
Is black magic and example of psychic interference?
Yes. Black magic disintegrates the victim’s will. Will is the engine of creation! Our creations are the experiences we have that reveal to us the beliefs we hold true about ourselves, directed and put into force by our will. Psychic interference is the direct and intended projection of one's will and thought to another person. An interferer's underlying motive is to hijack the mind of another and influence their choices to suit their needs. At a deeper level, the interferer is attempting to covertly implant fear within the other in a way that appears loving, in concern or for their greater benefit or safety.
What is the immediate effect of this psychic interference?
When another person successfully hijacks our mind, we become more confused
and vulnerable. In our confusion, we become open and receptive to accepting
the suggestions and ideas of another. It is in this vulnerability that
we have accepted their ideas as our own. You are no longer able to distinguish
what is my belief or your belief. It is in this confusion that the beliefs
and fears of others can take root and flourish. When this occurs, someone
else has gotten into the "back door" of your minds and someone
else's will has become your own. If their will rules your mind, then you
will begin to make choices that will produce outcomes that really have
nothing to do with you and your own vision of self. Rather, you will be
filtering your own thoughts through the superimposed will and intent of
another!
What are the extreme forms of psychic interference?
Psychic interference can manifest in very extreme forms. Where an individual's mind is willfully intent on persuading, manipulating or sabotaging the experiences of another, the projection and receipt of ideas, thoughts and beliefs will be much more pronounced. Needs exchange will be very prominent and survival fears will be heightened in the minds of both parties. Acceptance of external suggestion, coercion and manipulation will depend upon the relationship between the individuals, the dependency evident in emotional connections and the interferer's ability to recognize and tap into the fears of their quarry. Destructive black magic ritual and effect is probably the most extreme form of such interference.
How can you explain psychic interference from a Soul perspective?
Well, every individual is a Soul that encases a physical body. The Soul of an individual is simply the essence of God, or the Source as I call it, extended at the moment of creation to expand the infinite experience of the whole. Every Soul has inherited the intrinsic nature of its creator; the Source of its origin. Creative ability is therefore unlimited and unrestrained, giving an individual complete free will over the choices that determine its experience.
Our thoughts create our every experience. Thought is individual consciousness in representation of self.
Do you find that people generally do not trust their thoughts?
People don’t! Our ability to utilize the power of thought is generally undervalued, unrecognized or disregarded. Simply, we do not give a lot of thought to our thoughts! There appears to be little internal control, censorship or any type, or rating system that we apply to the epic dialogue going on in our own heads from one moment to the next. Our minds are constantly stimulated and affected by interactions with environments, circumstances and people and our thought processes will generally respond in a spontaneous way to these experiences. If our thoughts create our reality and experience, then the state and disposition of our minds will be absolutely imperative to achieving positive and loving outcomes that reflect and define our own will and intent.
What difference will greater awareness of our thoughts make in our lives?
Awareness of self and conscious recognition of our thoughts and belief systems will create greater awareness of what originates in our own thinking processes and what does not. Listening to the mind in moments of stillness allows us to hear the production process and identify the experience that has provoked or produced our choice of thought.
So where do our thoughts come from?
Our thoughts originate from our beliefs. Our beliefs come from our Soul; developed over many lifetimes and incarnated into our present physical body. These Soul beliefs are modified in this lifetime because we have certain lessons to learn in the here and now; and these modifications are formulated from our individual physical perspective and the opinions we have adopted from our own experience and those of others. If you choose to believe something, your mind will create it and/or modify it. Your circumstances will reflect your perspective, regardless of whether your perspective has been restrictive, limiting or discriminating. If your thoughts and beliefs have originated from an external source, your experience will reflect these assumed and accepted ideas and perspectives.
Can you give an example?
If you believe you are physically unattractive, you will respond to interactions with others with the founding notion that you are unattractive. Circumstances will develop where your beliefs will be validated. Others may actually perceive you as radiant and beautiful, however, you have asserted your will! You believe you are unattractive, you look for evidence that you are unattractive, and you consciously and unconsciously expect to be treated with persecuting disdain. As a creator, you have projected these beliefs outward in the form of thoughts based upon your opinion of self whether or not the beliefs have originated from within you or been assumed from the beliefs of others.
These projections have been received by the other party involved and they have responded to you according to the beliefs you hold true about yourself. They are simply honoring your will to be treated as unattractive, therefore, you will experience the disdain you abhor but quite certainly expected of them.
This experience will only demonstrate and prove to you that you are indeed unattractive and give you justification to continue believing an untruth about yourself. The individual who has honored your will, when placed in the same situation with a different person, will act out the belief systems of that person and treat them according to the thoughts that have been projected and received from them. Their response to the new individual may be radically different to the response you have received from them in a very similar situation. This is projection! A demonstration of the thoughts and belief systems that you hold true concerning self!
How do we project or receive each other's thoughts? How does this process occur?
The Source, or God, is the one energy of all that is; love! During the creation process, the one energy that is the Source, love, expanded and transformed itself into a multitude of interconnected Souls that together retained the absolute unity of the whole. Included in this energetic process was the creation of humanity. Energy moves, shapes and moulds itself anew, continuously evolving, transforming and recreating itself infinitely. In this way, we are all interconnected to one another and the Source. We are the energy of God and each one of us flows within the same sphere of energy that is God.
The life force that sustains us all is the energy that is the Source, or God. This is the fuel that powers our existence and our experiences. As individualizations of the one energy, we mould, shape and amalgamate our own personal experiences in reflective unity with each other. As we exist and progressively move forward within that one flow that is life and God, we are naturally interconnected energetically with all that is. Our interconnectedness is a natural consequence of our energetic state of being. Therefore, each one of us is connected and intertwined to the other as a perfect extension of God, creating and existing in loving rhythm with the other and ultimately as the whole. What affects one, will affect the whole! Where one stumbles, so we all stumble! This interconnectedness is the mechanism through which we affirm our will.
How do you define individual will?
Will is the autonomy we all have to freely choose the form and function of our own experiences in relationship to how others will affect us. When we affirm our will, others must honor it, for you are ultimately the only power broker in your reality! You will project your will through the channels of interconnectedness and the other party will receive the message and act out the request in honor of the Source within you. Your will is, therefore, the will of God, your Source. God's will is your will in action; the divine gift of choice - the freedom to create your experience as you so desire yet within the expansiveness of the whole.
However, will and intent are completely different. While God's will is for humanity to experience themselves through their individual choices, His intent was to create infinite expansion, to know and be empowered as the energy of love and to give humanity the freedom to realize themselves as God. To be as God, we have the potential to exist as pure, unconditional love and to express love infinitely in all ways. Choice, however, allows us to divert from God's intent and choose another way. Yet, these choices divert us from the flow of life that is God. When we fear the flow of life, when we do not trust the process, we divert into the ego self.
How do you define the ‘ego self’?
The ego self is the energy of fear. Fear retracts and moves away from an experience defensively and protectively. As we back away from the experience of life, we go against the natural flow of all that is and create experiences that reflect our fears and perceptions of life. As we fight the flow of life, we unconsciously sense that life is passing us by. The battles, trials and tribulations of our physical lives are representative of the ways we resist, fight and battle the flow of life and the Source, God. When we are unaware of this, we are in our ego selves.
The ego self is a fearful energetic manifestation of our belief that we are separate, alone and unsupported. When we are in this space, ultimately, our lives will become pain and suffering. The energy that flows as life is love. When we are consumed by our fears and needs, we feel separated from love. Yet, the flow of life will ultimately propel us forward into expansive and enriching experiences that lovingly reflect the choices we make to resist the natural flow of life. In revealing these choices, we recognize the fears and needs that hold us captive. In true recognition, we are encouraged and empowered through our awareness to surrender and release our fears and needs, knowing that they hold no true purpose or significance in comparison to the greatness and richness of the Source.
As the flow of life gradually and gently sweeps away all that we have released, the energy of love flows more freely into your experience, healing and transforming you anew. We feel lighter, clearer and more joyful. The energy of love has unleashed the power within you and the current of life is sweeping you forward unrestrained and without resistance. When we are in recognition of this, we are in our God selves.
What is the effect of being aware of our God self, or as you call it, the Source?
When we are in recognition of our God self, the creative process will resound with divine love. Our experiences of self will be expansive, unrestricted and without limitation. We will experience meaningful and joyous emotions and circumstances that reflect the sacredness of the love we have for ourselves and others. We are, thus, moving forward with the ever-supportive and expansive energy of life. However, when our creations are based in the ego, our perception is clouded in fear and doubt, thus creating distorted and unclear experiences that are restrictive, unhappy and unloving. These outcomes serve to create awareness through contrast, giving us an opportunity to rethink and reevaluate the choices we have made and the responses we have demonstrated. These choices will reveal to us the love or lack thereof we have been feeling or expressing about self and others.
These perceptions about self love create the thoughts that extend outward from us as energy. These energetic messages are received by others through our channels of interconnectedness that naturally flow within the current of life. Individuals interacting with each other will naturally transfer energy (thoughts) to and from each other throughout the course of the interaction. We are essentially energetic beings! We are what we think! What you think, emits an energy! Therefore, every thought is an emission of personal energy that is transmitted to others. The messages are received into the unconscious mind, revealing to another's individual consciousness the truth of who you are (God self) and how you perceive yourself (ego self).
When our thoughts emit from the God self, we create a corresponding energy that embodies love; the experience of joy, peace and compassion. These energetic messages will impact the unconscious mind of the receiver where the individual's consciousness will either accept or reject the thoughts of love. The thoughts of others will only be accepted within the mind where there is a commonality or affinity between the individuals and their thought processes. When these messages are received, it triggers a response that exemplifies our acceptance or rejection of the projected thoughts.
So we have a clear choice?
Essentially, we have a choice! Our free will dictates our choices! The loving or unloving thoughts we choose to project or emit will ultimately determine the type of energy that will manifest as our personal experiences. Humanity, in its continued belief in separation, has given ego based thinking and believing precedence. Therefore, the majority of our experiences reflect these thoughts and beliefs.
The ego self is an energetic creation that stems from our loveless thoughts and beliefs concerning self. This loveless creation gains power and manifests when we give false purpose and meaning to our personal experiences of life. As egoistical thoughts and beliefs emit from the ego self, we create layers of suppressive energetic matter around the physical body that distance us or obscure us from the God self and the flow of life. As the ego mind continues to weave the energetic matter of thought, denser and more tangible layers of negative matter wrap around the individual and their consciousness to create a resiliency against revelation from the God self and the currents of loving energy that encase us. This further supports the negative beliefs we hold about ourselves and reveals the extent of our perceptions of separation between self and God. This whole process is expressed in statements such as:
"It's my way or the highway!"
"I can't lose control!"
"That's just the way it is!"
"I don't care!"
"I don't have to!"
or
"I don't know who I really am!"
"I feel disconnected from myself!"
"I feel removed from myself!"
"I feel torn!"
"I need to find myself again!"
And these thoughts or beliefs create energy?
They do! Energy is simply the manifestation of our thoughts as we extend or project them from our consciousness. The extent of our experiences will be impacted by the type of emotion that we felt whilst engaged in the thinking process. Humans also are emotional beings. Our emotions can inspire us to greatness yet adversely cripple and bring us to our knees! Everything we experience is affected by the unity of our individual thoughts and emotions. If we have passion for something, we apply ourselves with determination, tenacity and enthusiasm. Emotional fuel gives creation (thought) added power (energy)! It determines the intensity, tangibility and power of our creations (experiences) and their manifestations in our lives.
Some people say it is human nature to dwell on pain. Is that true?
It is human nature to dwell and reflect upon those circumstances or people that seem to cause us the most grief or perplexity in life. It is through such pain that we learn the lessons we have come to Earth to learn. And at times, we may feel emotional frustration, anger, hatred, vengefulness, spite or malice. But if these emotions have escalated to a point of obsession, the energetic layers of our ego selves will become so dense and all consuming that we will begin to lose sight of reality and thus cut ourselves off from our unity to God self and the natural flow of life.
In our moment of disunity, we have allowed our thoughts to be filtered through the belief systems of the ego self reinforcing the energetic bondage that has formed around us. Eventually we will feel suffocated and consumed, overloaded and overburdened! The layers of ego self are suffocating and squeezing the joy of life out of us! Until there is pain! We must unburden ourselves and get some breathing space once again. While we know at a deeper level that we have created our own reality, we cannot bring ourselves to claim responsibility especially when we are so deeply in denial. So, we blame someone else for our misery!
So pain eventually leads to energy being forced ‘out’, projected at another person, or other people. What impact does that have on the person doing the projecting?
In attempting to project our "stuff" outward to another through blame, we are disowning our own self created experience by blaming someone else and trying to make them responsible for our own state of being. It is easier, quicker and seemingly less painful to dump our stuff on someone else and run away from it! However, it thus stands to reason that what we create belongs to us, and therefore it cannot be separated from us. This embodies the natural laws relative to energy and it's constitution. Your energetic creations cannot be separated from you! While we may attempt to push away or dump on another our stuff, it will ultimately rebound and return repetitively to its true owner. Many equate this experience with the concept of karma or cause and effect. However, we are not accumulating debts to others or God, we are accumulating our own debts and bankrupting ourselves in the process.
Is there a positive aspect to this?
Yes. The positive side to all this is simply that we are being given a golden opportunity to become aware and resolve the creations of our thoughts, words and deeds that cause us grief, unhappiness, pain and misery. It powerfully reveals the inner conflict that is raging within between the ego self, that needs to survive, and the God self, that is simply love.
Just changing the topic if I may, how do you define ‘psychic’ power?
You are not really changing the topic at all. Psychic ability is an awareness of the interconnectedness inherent to all humanity. It is the ability to "tap" into our interconnectedness to give an individual "in-sight" to another's state of being; their belief systems, the thoughts that originate from these beliefs (their creative process) and the subsequent outcomes that can and will develop from these dynamics. Therefore, every individual has the capacity and capability to develop and refine their inherent psychic ability.
Spontaneous psychic ability is simply the unconscious recognition and utilization of the channels and links that connect our soul network. The extent of an individual's ability to consciously utilize these channels is heavily reliant upon their mental aptitude, their skills in concentration and focus and their ability to recognize their natural connection to all things. Therefore, psychic ability is a natural state of awareness that is neither supernatural nor extraordinary for it relies upon the natural structure and flow of all that is.
Is psychic ability a matter of choice?
While psychic ability is a positive step towards remembrance of our origins and awareness of the natural flow of all things, its use is subject to individual choice and intent. The choices are simple; love or fear. Our intent evolves from the beliefs we hold true, "How can I get what I need? I am incomplete! I need to get it from another! I must survive!" Those who consciously or unconsciously (in denial) chose to psychically interfere with others are revealing their own neediness, a heightened sense of fear and a complete disbelief in self. However, while the revelation is clear, the individuals concerned have intentionally set out to avoid facing these false beliefs about self. Their intent is to avoid self confrontation through control of another. The psychic interferer feels great disempowerment and insecurity concerning self, therefore, the illusion of self empowerment seems only possible through the control and subjugation of another.
So we are back to the topic of psychic interference?
We had to return to the topic eventually (laughs). And back to the area of psychic manipulation. Manipulation, if you recall, is the art of convincing, managing or influencing another's mind through intentional deviousness. It uses direct and conscious suggestion to convince, justify and enforce beliefs, opinions and ideas through self imposition and righteousness. Once manipulation is triggered into action, it invalidates the choices and beliefs of another person, replacing them with the choices and belief systems of the manipulator. It can be described as a "forced substitution" of personality, acceptable behaviour or personal standards imposed upon another person through suggestion implanted with fear.
This type of suggestion, and again note the link to black magic ritual, is characterized by the verbal repetition of ideas, personal thoughts and judgments at a conscious level. The manipulator will intimidate, invalidate and degrade another individual when they are seeking to impose their own set of standards or expectations. Subversive manipulation can be just as destructive as direct manipulation. Subterfuge and espionage are deviously employed to underhandedly mislead and deceive the person they are so intently focused upon. Regardless of the manipulator's choice of tactic, the use of manipulation will always be the practice used when the intent is to subjugate another person into a stance of fear driven inferiority and powerlessness.
Those subjected to the nuances of manipulation will eventually feel emotionally drained, depressed and unhappy. The fear will take root in the mind, creating a filter through which all thought and experience will begin to reflect their inner state of disempowerment. As these individuals begin to submit and accept the pressures of their manipulator, they will begin to feel the inner battle and conflict raging within between their emotions and their thinking. The heart will feel deep resentment as they sacrifice self to please the self imposing restrictions and expectations of the manipulator, while the mind will remain in deep conflict and confusion over its sense of obligation to others versus the obligation to self.
What gratification does the manipulator get from this process?
For the manipulator, these tactics temporarily assuage their own feelings of powerlessness and insecurity, allowing them to feel a false sense of control and empowerment. As they sense their victim submitting to their manipulative control, they will begin to experience feelings of self satisfaction and gratification. This gives their ego the false impression that acting in an uncompromising and manipulative way is empowering, elevating and strengthening their own sense of self. Their stubborn and willful nature reveals their complete indifference or intolerance for others and thus self. Our attitudes and behaviour towards others only reveal the true nature of our suppressed feelings about self and the ways we attempt to deny or disassociate from our own inner fears and personal issues.
What are the manipulator’s primary weapons when targeting a victim?
The manipulator need only impart a justifiable reason within the mind of the other person to give their actions a sense of acceptability and righteousness. The first aim of a manipulator is to create a dependency! They need bargaining power! In order to induce within the other person a more complete submission and thus gain control, the manipulator needs to instill and heighten any fears already present. Dependency implies that one is in desperate need of something they believe is lacking within. This is the illusion of fear! A belief associated to need will create fear! The manipulator will, therefore, falsely seek to entice, seduce or tempt the other person into believing that they can fulfill their needs and thus assuage their fears. This is, however, not enough! The manipulator will also need to convince that person that they are the only one that can supply or fulfill the need.
Once they have instilled a false sense of security in their victim and subversively created a dependency, in time, they will divert their manipulations towards acquiring their own needs. Shaking the victim's false sense of security is the most effective method of ensuring any future compliance. They will thus threaten, directly or indirectly, with loss, separation or loneliness depending upon the extent of their victim's dependency. This is emotional blackmail at its best! This type of power struggle for love or acceptance based on condition or cost will be strongly reinforced within the victim by their own fears. The manipulator is attempting to divert or change the free will and choices of another to suit their own needs by deviously heightening the other person's own inner fears, while at the same time compounding both of their denied and unresolved personal issues.
Where dependency is established based on a need for approval and recognition (judgment), the manipulator will seek to expose the individual's beliefs in unworthiness and threaten with rejection, persecution, condemnation or disapproval. Contrarily, where the dependency is based in a need to acquire, preserve and have proof of love (guilt), the manipulator will seek to expose the individual's lack of self love. Intensifying any fears associated to "not being wanted" or the victim's feelings of being unloved will result into threats of renouncement, punishment, abandonment or wrongfulness.
Where a high level of dependency has been established, the individual being subjected to the exploits of manipulation will generally submit (passive response) to their manipulator. They will endeavour to agree noncommittally and become completely non-reactive, hiding or suppressing their own feelings to circumvent their manipulator's attempts to expose and heighten their own fears. In the same manner, they will very rarely verbalize their opinions, wants or ideas in fear of loss or exposure. Where submission occurs, the individual has evaluated the threat of loss or exposure of fear as insurmountable and has thus resorted to hiding or suppressing self to avoid any further confrontations. This ensures them the approval, love, respect or peace they perceive they so desperately need.
What are the prime defensive actions of the victim at this point?
The passive victim will spend most of their time trying to evade the haranguing of the manipulator, attempting to live a "double" life of self. This split in the passive personality's identity becomes more evident when their manipulator is "out of range". Their behaviour with others will be more relaxed and natural, while their identity may appear to be more intact. They will subversively interact with others in this way, attempting to regain the sense of self that seemingly disappears when interacting with their manipulator.
Those responding to a manipulator in a passive mode will begin to feel intense resentment, assigning blame to their counterpart who they perceive is controlling and suppressing them. However, they fail to recognize the opportunity that has presented itself. An opportunity to evolve through conscious awareness of their fear based reactive behaviour. Reactive behaviour originating in the ego will exemplify the unloving and limiting belief systems of an individual. In this case, the fear of exposing self! When we are afraid that others will "see" us for who we really are, we reveal to self our inner feelings of unworthiness or our belief that we cannot be loved. Any limitation and restriction evident in our experience has been created by one or more these beliefs.
When intense resentment has built within the victim and their need to rebel has become all consuming, a battle of wills erupts and each individual moves into a defensive and protective stance.
How does the manipulator generally respond to this change in attitude of the victim?
The individual who formerly submitted to the manipulator has now become more confrontational, seeking to reassert their identity and take back their personal power. This will seem completely "out of the ordinary" to their manipulator who has until now kept a tight and strict grip over their suppressed and submissive personality. The manipulator will begin to feel cheated or tricked by the changed attitude of their counterpart. They will display their displeasure with anger, outrage and interrogation.
As the manipulator feels more and more threatened by the other person's growing "rebellion", s/he will slowly begin to threaten, invalidate and make ultimatums as they continue to actively pursue the false perception of the perfect relationship as they believe it should be and was in the beginning. Their pressing needs will dictate the level of fear they begin feel about losing control. And so the war of subterfuge, coercion and control continues!
When is such manipulation most evident? Under what circumstances?
Our egotistical nature will tend to use manipulation when there is suppression of unresolved and denied beliefs and emotions about self. Focusing on others is an effective way to avoid, deny or hide from our insecurities and fears. We will attempt to remain in familiar and controlled circumstances, environments and relationships that do not confront, challenge or expose how we are truly feeling within. This type of escapism serves to disconnect us from the deeper experiences of life that create self awareness, the joy of exploring our emotions and our capacity to expand and formulate the true self in freedom and love.
When manipulation is in play, it creates experiences that are domineering and restrictive and attitudes that are narrow-minded, petty, critical or judgmental. Life is viewed with indifference and rigidity and the experiences that lovingly challenge and reveal are disregarded, rejected and denied. All this is simply a deterrent against divine revelation and the disclosure of self. In avoiding revelation, a manipulator can remain justified in their denial or renouncement of self.
A manipulator is using subversive methods of suggestion and influence to penetrate and infiltrate the egotistical mind of another individual by perverting the channels of interconnectedness. Regardless of the behavioural response of their victim, the manipulator is in effect attempting to psychically interfere with the other person. Any forced attempt to change the mind of another individual through fear and the infiltration of one's own beliefs or thoughts is considered psychic interference. Psychic interference is a process of restricting, breaking down and controlling the God given free will and experience of another person. This is the ego's illusionary attempt to override the will of God!
Where a manipulator's state of mind (ego) is unyielding and obsessive, their need to acquire egotistical satisfaction will be unrelenting. At this level of egotistical need, the manipulator will be unperturbed by rational thought or logic. The need is pressing and must be fulfilled! The manipulator will believe at all times that an outcome is still imminent and self deserving! This state of mind will create an energetic blanket within their personal space and environment that will allow the dark realms of the supernatural to infiltrate, forming insidious connections and attachments to them and their personal environments.
You have spoken a lot about spirit realm and demonic realms in the past. Most people do not look beyond the physical realm. Can a person survive in this life by just focusing on the physical realm?
The unseen environment is rarely considered, recognized nor sensed by those within the physical world. However, its impact upon us is profound and lasting; and should always be considered. We are physical and metaphysical beings coexisting in a multidimensional environment. These two environments coexist together as the one reality where the physical world is the relative counterpart of the unseen environment. Thus, our physical world is simply a tangible reflection of the unseen etheric environment that surrounds us.
In consideration of this unity between the physical and the unseen, our every physical action will produce a corresponding and simultaneous energetic manifestation within the unseen environment. It is the same for every thought, word and deed. These inspirations or responses generate an energetic atmosphere around an individual in the unseen environment that eventually materializes into their physical environment as revealing personal experience. These etheric atmospheres that compound in the unseen are commonly referred to as unseen realms.
The unseen realms are simply environments that are intangible and ethereal, therefore, very malleable to thought. All thoughts are extended from humanity into this malleable environment where materialization will thus begin to impress and reflect into our perception of the physical world. As the thoughts intensify, accumulate and integrate, the materialization process will gain momentum and create a new physical reality that reflects the individual's state of mind.
How do you define ‘materialism’?
Materialisation is the physical manifestation of our thoughts and emotions reflecting from the unseen environment into our perception of the physical world. Therefore, every situation or circumstance that we experience in our physical lives has directly evolved from our thought processes and the emotional feelings that fuelled those thoughts. Where a group consciousness exists, that is, individuals with similar beliefs and corresponding thoughts, the power of the materialization process will occur with greater speed and intensity around them.
We can only give power to that which we believe in! Beliefs in separation and limitation have propelled humanity to create primarily through the ego. All creation (thought) based in the ego will generate an energy of fear and desolation. This energy extends into the unseen environment surrounding an individual, creating a distinctive negative atmosphere. The energetic constitution of this atmosphere is determined by the emotions we associate with our thoughts and experiences. These thoughts, fuelled by our emotions will materialize into our reality with added force.
Where psychic interference is occurring through devious manipulation, a manipulator will create a distinctive negative atmosphere of fear, desperation and destructiveness. Any unresolved feelings and beliefs about self will naturally resound forth into the surrounding unseen environment through the medium of thought. As these thoughts are projected from the individual, their emotions will coagulate and form into a vortex of energetic matter that consists of the negativity and dysfunctionality of their indifference and intolerance towards others and themselves. Greater willfulness and stubbornness will escalate this type of atmosphere, creating a more established and solid barrier around them over time. It stands to reason that our energetic personal space will overflow into our physical environments and transfer to the people we are closely connected to.
This is the formation of the realities and experiences we perceive around us intertwining with the energetic manifestations of others and their creations. In many ways, this is why many of us feel as though the lives or experiences of others have impinged or impacted our own lives. The unseen environment is pure energy, moulding and shaping to the infinite thoughts emanating from each individual and humanity as a whole. It is a natural outcome of our inherent unity and the existent soul network that moves and shapes together as one. This is why it is said that as one stumbles so do we all. As one moves forward and expands as an individual, so to does the greater whole.
Yet, everything we create, belongs to us! It is an extension of us! Therefore, it will naturally extend outward and return to us. Our own unique personal experience is testimony to this natural occurrence within the unseen. While those around us are impacted in a greater sense, free will dictates responsibility and ownership for that which is our own, created by our own choosing. Thus, all that we create, energetic and physical, will ultimately return and reveal what we have been creating and how we truly feel in our hearts about ourselves.
Our beliefs concerning self are the most prominent thoughts that extend outward from us, reflecting into our physical environment. When our beliefs are based in fear, we extend our thoughts through the ego self. Beliefs based in fear will have you thinking you are bad, wrong, unlovable, unworthy, ugly, incomplete, incapable and so on. These thoughts will create an energy in the unseen environment around you and will begin to materialize as situations and circumstances within your physical reality that reflect your beliefs.
As these beliefs become more established within your mind, the emotions you feel in relation to these beliefs also become more intense. This intensity creates recurring situations and circumstances that reflect the intensity of your own beliefs and associated emotions. This only serves to reinforce the negative beliefs and validate the rationalizations of the ego.
When we have created a tangible negative and egotistical energy around us, the existent realms of dense, absorbing darkness created by greater humanity will naturally begin to merge energetically into a more unified energy of oneness. Our inherent nature is to unite for we exist in unity as one. Thus, we will amalgamate with the aspect of self that is most prominent in our personality and energetically amalgamate with the type of energy that blends and enhances these aspects.
How do you link that which is created and centered around the ego to the dark realms?
The dark realms of the unseen that are in sync with the ego are composed of a low, contaminated, unloving energy that is supported by our carnal, lower, instinctive selves. The manifestations existing within these environments are tangible formations that are composed of the most violent or suppressed emotions expressed by greater humanity. The intensity of our beliefs associated with any form self loathing or hatred will create a magnetic energetic atmosphere of darkness, emptiness and desolation
The demonic realms are the mass accumulation of humanity's darkest, most distorted and fear filled thoughts amassed together in the unseen environment. Demons are the violent manifestation of humanity's egotistical and unloving expressions of rage, hatred, viciousness, spite, depravity, malice and wickedness. The demon is the ego personified at it's most depraved and immoral!
Demons are allowed in, and at times created, from the aspect of the personality that reflects the individual's most raging, depraved or carnal nature. These intense lower aspects of self when unresolved, denied or unleashed will resound out with force and fury into the unseen environment as thoughts, words and deeds. Energy will form into a vision of the self and how we represent that self in the physical world. If the egotistical aspect of self is predominant, then the corresponding energetic persona we are formulating in the unseen will naturally personify our ego. This manifestation will be fuelled by the thoughts and emotions that we most commonly express about self and others. Thus, the lower aspects of self will fuel this creation with rage, violence and carnal depravity. The demon is thus born!
Those individuals who are influenced or aligned with these realms are extremely unresolved and in complete renouncement of their God selves. The flow of life and the currents of love have completely stalled around them. Yet, the demon that has been created is simply the God self presenting an extreme revelation of a metaphysical nature. The metaphysical manifestation is a reflection of their choice to disregard, reject or renounce their spiritual origin rather making the physical world a place where lust, greed and superiority reign. However, it important to understand that these types of energetic attachments do not represent the reality of the individual concerned. The energetic manifestation is not about who you are, it is a representation of who you believe you are or have become!
This is the most extreme and adverse example of alignment with the ego self. While these realms can have limited influence, they will be empowered by the egotistical desire and obsessive needs of the individual they are affiliated with. Once these realms are empowered, they will reinforce and encourage the egotistical aspect of the personality to continue renouncing the God self.
In this extreme distortion, the individual will be unconsciously drawn to those individuals who share in the same affiliations. When these individuals are confronted by those in awareness of the God self, the egotistical aspect will naturally begin to feel very threatened, becoming defensive. The individual will seek to draw out the egotistical aspect of the individual that has confronted them. In an attempt to crucify the God self, the individual will be indifferent, critical, blaming, judgmental, invalidating, cruel … overall; anything that is contrary to love and that will deflect revelation!
Putting aside the most extreme, most individuals tend to alternate between their God self and their egotistical self, energetically swaying between moving forward freely with the loving flow of life or stagnating inert by resisting in fear and doubt. When we are in fear and doubt, we will feel threatened and defensive towards any type of revelation that is presenting itself for recognition through awareness.
How do we dismantle the creations of the ego?
Thoughts based in love and compassion will reverberate into the unseen environment around us as an expansive, refined energy. This energy creates more love, abundance, freedom and joy. Being willing to extend yourself in love to self and others will reduce the potential of the ego and disperse it's energetic counterparts.
In dispersing the ego and all it's manifestations, we must make a conscientious effort towards becoming aware of our responses and behaviour when interacting with others. In doing so, we can identify why we think and feel the way we do in the circumstances that challenge us to evolve and grow. This will eventually create corresponding situations and circumstances where choices can be made that will reflect and represent our true divine nature. This is the path to spirituality! The tearing down of the egotistical aspects of self!
Spirituality is, thus, the realization of our spiritual reality! It is the awareness, recognition and acknowledgment of the God self; love and its infinite potential. The essence of our divine state of being! Therefore, it is a state of consciousness, God consciousness, that encourages a genuine willingness to recognize and take responsibility for our own ego based creations. Those who integrate their spiritual reality more completely within their physical lives will extend more consciously in loving harmony with all that is and naturally flow in harmony with the currents and tides of life.
So what we should be seeking is an alignment between our Soul self and our God self?
Yes. An alignment with the God self through the acceptance and integration of spirituality while in the physical world will create an energetic atmosphere around an individual of love and divinity. This will create loving and positive situations and circumstances within the physical reality of the individual. As these loving vibrations become more established around an individual, their state of consciousness rises to heightened levels of awareness and wisdom concerning their spiritual evolvement. We are all one! Therefore, those individuals with comparative or parallel levels of realized awareness will be drawn together to affiliate and unify with each other, whether within the unseen environments or the physical world. Together they transcend the illusionary boundaries of limitation and fear into a heightened awareness of integrated God consciousness.
How does one become more aware of their God self to attain a heightened awareness of their unity with God consciousness?
This is a road fraught with consistent self observation and an unwavering commitment to love of self. Willingness is essential for a positive change in our thinking. We must be willing to examine and monitor our beliefs, thoughts and feelings without judging or blaming ourselves or others.
Applying forgiveness, to ourselves and others, frees us from the hurtful and painful connections we have formed within our personal relationships. Without forgiveness, these ties will maintain us in bondage, retaining their power over our thought processes as the memories associated to that pain linger on unresolved. Unresolved past memories and pain distance us further from the realization of our infinite selves and block the flow of life.
Accepting that all is as it should be right now allows us to surrender the fears, judgments and distortions of the egotistical aspects of the personality and those expressed by others. Changing our perception of the creative process altogether will allow us to see things as they are; with clarity! Realising the power of creation can only be achieved when we are certain of self and our divine nature. This begins to change our reality and the thought processes that created it!
Recognition of our God self gives us the ability to instigate the changes that will be necessary to replace our outdated ego based beliefs and thought processes. Remaining centred in a state of love and self awareness regardless of the circumstances or responses of others, deflects the egotistical nature and it's attempts to distract and confuse us with fear. Retaining this state of open receptivity allows us to begin replacing these fearful thought processes with a state of being that embodies love and courage, creating experiences that more fully represent us and who we are.
Retaining and reflecting upon past pains and suffering will only serve to create further pain and suffering in your current reality. This occurs as our thought processes reinforce our self created experiences of pain and suffering. These thoughts will reinvent circumstances and situations in our lives that will outwardly reflect the pain and suffering that is unresolved within. Therefore, every experience or circumstance that occurs in our lives will exhibit and exemplify our inner beliefs and thoughts concerning self. This will indicate our choices to respond through either the God self (love) or the ego self (fear). Recognizing and realizing the difference gives us the conscious awareness necessary to make positive choices that will create healing and purpose to the experience of our reality!
In every moment, we have a choice to change the circumstances around us and recreate our perceptions anew. In recreation, we can align with the true nature of our God selves and thus recreate new experiences that are more in touch with the reality of our loving essence.
